There are definitely some unhealthy patterns in your relationship. We all get a little jealous sometimes and it is natural to want to be around the person you love a good bit, but it is important that we keep in mind how our actions in a relationships might be making the other person feel. For example jealousy may seem cute and harmless at first but it gets old quickly and the other person might start to feel frustrated if there is not trust in the relationship. It is never fun to feel like someone is trying to control you.