It looks like you are experiencing some major red flags.
You definitely don’t want to ignore these red flags as more could appear and things could get more intense. No relationship is perfect, but if your relationship is healthy there shouldn’t be abusive behaviors. If you feel afraid of your partner at any time that is a huge red flag that you might want to talk to a friend or trusted adult. If you have more questions about your relationship you can go to our forum or contact us page.